Friday, March 12, 2010

Life is all about Perspectives

Train with passengers (obvious!) is on the way. Passengers inside are sleeping, taking food, reading news paper, seating silently - overall peaceful atmosphere. Next stop came, father with their 3 children steps inside and suddenly behavior of children spoiled the peaceful atmosphere. Instead of controlling children father went to his seat, closed his eyes as nothing is happening.

Beautiful lady to Father, “Can you tell your children to shut their mouth and seat silently?” Father suddenly realizes the disturbance created by children and told lady, “Just before an hour my wife DIED and I don’t know what’s going around me. Sorry!!”

Everyone speechless

In the train there were 3 kinds of people.
1) Who now know the reason and perception change, sympathy for the man instead of bad words! They don’t feel noise now.

2) Who still don’t know the reason and telling that how irresponsible this father is!

3) Who earlier realized from the expression that something wrong happen to this person!


LIFE IS ALL ABOUT “PERSPECTIVE”, NOW YOU DECIDE IN WHICH CATEGORY YOU ARE. THIS STORY IS VERY CLOSE TO MY HEART AND CHANGED MY LIFE A LOT.

6 comments:

Reena Kataria said...

other things also comes in my mind dt if no one understand u its yr responcibility to tell them y al dis happing n dn d prob ll b solved
its also posibl dt other pasangr might have dr persnl prob n want peace in d atmosphr
if its al about perspectiv think fm dt side also

so d simple solutn is try to understand others alyws n if othres is nt doing d same tell him yr perspectiv

wt say??

Amisha said...

i agree w Reena... always try to understand others but at the same time without expecting others to understand us, v explain...

Jatin said...

on that note I would love to tell one thing then..

HABIT 5: Seek First to be understand then to be understood

If you want to understand someone then you have to put your shoes into their, but before that you should remove your shoes..

Keep in mind: there is very THIN line between Argument and discussion...

:)

Reena Kataria said...

ya but its also posible dt we alwys try to understand othrs perspectiv in al n al v frgt wt ws our perspectiv .....so alwys b carful dt every time u dnt need to read or understand othrs perspectiv as well

Jatin said...

All the time...
we always stuck into arguments only.

Sometime we frgt wt we r here for...

Anonymous said...

our own perspectives can never be definate......they always change according to situation.......first learn to understand situation than our perspective itself will be clear